There is a quiet irony at the heart of the mental health profession. Therapists spend their careers holding space for others’ pain — sitting in the room with grief, abuse, violence, addiction, loss, and despair, session after session, year after year. They are trained to normalize help-seeking, to challenge shame around vulnerability, and to advocate loudly for the healing power of therapy. Yet when it comes to their own trauma, an uncomfortable truth persists: far too many therapists never go. This is not a judgment. It is a pattern rooted in a complex web of professional identity, fears about confidentiality, concerns about appearing impaired, and the exhausting emotional labor that leaves little room for self-reflection. But it is a pattern with real consequences — for therapists themselves, for the clients they serve, and for the broader culture of mental health care. If we believe therapy works — and we do — then therapists must be its most committed practitioners, not its most reluctant patients.